Precise communication can play such a positive part in understanding the intended message versus the perceived message — or even understanding that those two messages may be different. It's ok to recognize how you feel from these comments, accept how unfair they may seem, and also communicate what would help you specifically.

My message for any woman navigating a male-dominated STEM field is to always advocate for yourself. DO NOT settle or keep quiet just because it could be worse.

Possibly one of the best advantages I’ve had throughout my career was having a series of mentors who were accessible and encouraging. Unfortunately, I didn’t always know how to take advantage of the guidance they could provide. Hopefully this can help answer some of the questions I didn’t know to ask.